Why didn’t she leave they said…
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Leaving an abusive relationship can be as dangerous as staying in one. After Barbara left, her abuser brutally killed her, continuing to shoot even after she was dead. This tragic event underscores the critical need for safety planning and support when leaving an abuser. Misogyny is rife. The patriarchy is real!